{"id":3763,"date":"2015-04-15T17:30:10","date_gmt":"2015-04-15T13:30:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/englishbookgeorgia.com\/blogebg\/?p=3763"},"modified":"2015-04-15T17:31:54","modified_gmt":"2015-04-15T13:31:54","slug":"psychologists-say-power-does-4-crazy-things-to-your-mind","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/englishbookgeorgia.com\/blogebg\/psychologists-say-power-does-4-crazy-things-to-your-mind\/","title":{"rendered":"Psychologists Say Power Does 4 Crazy Things to Your Mind"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_3764\" style=\"width: 832px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/englishbookgeorgia.com\/blogebg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/pro1.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3764\" class=\"size-full wp-image-3764\" alt=\"Image credit: House of Cards | Netflix\" src=\"http:\/\/englishbookgeorgia.com\/blogebg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/pro1.jpeg\" width=\"822\" height=\"462\" srcset=\"https:\/\/englishbookgeorgia.com\/blogebg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/pro1.jpeg 822w, https:\/\/englishbookgeorgia.com\/blogebg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/pro1-300x168.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/englishbookgeorgia.com\/blogebg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/pro1-190x106.jpeg 190w, https:\/\/englishbookgeorgia.com\/blogebg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/pro1-280x157.jpeg 280w, https:\/\/englishbookgeorgia.com\/blogebg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/pro1-445x250.jpeg 445w, https:\/\/englishbookgeorgia.com\/blogebg\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/pro1-600x337.jpeg 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 822px) 100vw, 822px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-3764\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image credit: House of Cards | Netflix<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Who doesn&#8217;t desire power?<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s a little Frank Underwood in all of us.<\/p>\n<p>At the beginning of &#8220;House of Cards,&#8221; Kevin Spacey&#8217;s character explains why power beats money.<\/p>\n<p>Money is the McMansion in Sarasota that starts falling apart after 10 years. Power is the old stone building that stands for centuries. I cannot respect someone who doesn&#8217;t see the difference.<\/p>\n<p>But should you find and hold power \u2014 as Underwood so deliciously does \u2014 it&#8217;s going to do some really weird things to your perception of yourself and others.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s what the research says:<\/p>\n<p><b>1. If you feel powerful, you&#8217;re more inspired by yourself than anybody else.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>According to a 2015 study led by Gerben A. Van Kleef at the University of Amsterdam, powerful people find themselves more inspiring than anybody else. In a study of 140 undergraduates, he found that people who agreed highly to statements like &#8220;I can get others to do what I want&#8221; were more inspired by talking about their own life-changing experiences than hearing other people discuss theirs.<\/p>\n<p>To Research Digest blogger Alex Fradera, it&#8217;s indicative of self-sufficiency.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;As a matter of course, powerful people don&#8217;t expect others to fulfill their needs, and may therefore find it difficult to consider anyone else a worthy source of inspiration,&#8221; he writes. &#8220;It&#8217;s a little like a child for whom no one in the playground is up to scratch, so they become their own best friend.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><b>2. If you feel powerful, you&#8217;re the first to act.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>In a 2003 study led by Columbia University psychologist Adam Galinsky, people who felt more powerful than their peers were more likely to take a card in a game of blackjack, fix an annoying fan in a room, and take action in social dilemmas. A 2007 study coauthored by Galinsky added to that theme, finding that powerful people are more likely to act first in a negotiation.<\/p>\n<p>In 2012, the University of Texas&#8217; Jennifer A. Whitson found an explanation as to why: Powerful people are less likely to perceive \u2014 and remember \u2014 constraints to their goals.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s like how eagles and alligators evolved to have their eyes close together.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The vision of predators is fixated on their object of pursuit \u2014 their prey \u2014 leaving little visual room for unexpected danger or potential threats in their surroundings,&#8221; she and her authors write. &#8220;This directed focus allows them to pounce into action to secure their meal.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Same for CEOs.<\/p>\n<p><b>3. If you feel powerful, you&#8217;re more likely to cheat.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>According to a 2011 study led by Joris Lammers at Tilburg University in the Netherlands, it&#8217;s that powerful people are more likely to cheat.<\/p>\n<p>His team surveyed 1,561 professionals, asking how high up in their organizations they were and their history or interest in cheating.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Results showed that elevated power is positively associated with infidelity because power increases confidence in the ability to attract partners,&#8221; they wrote. &#8220;This association was found for both actual infidelity and intentions to engage in infidelity in the future.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Gender didn&#8217;t matter.<\/p>\n<p>Powerful women were just as likely to have or pursue affairs as powerful men. This goes against a commonly held assumption about cheating. It&#8217;s not that men are inherently more likely to cheat than women; it&#8217;s just that men are more likely to hold powerful positions.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;As a social psychologist, I believe that the situation is everything and that the situation or instance is often stronger than the individual,&#8221; Lammers said in a statement. &#8220;As more and more women are in greater positions of power and are considered equal to men, then familiar assumptions about their behavior may also change.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><b>4. If you feel powerful, you feel distant from other people.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>According to Joe Magee at New York University and Pamela Smith at the University of California at San Diego, powerful people feel more socially distant than non-powerful people.<\/p>\n<p>It happens for a few reasons:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>People become close to one another when they are &#8220;symmetrically dependent&#8221; on one another and have repeated interactions, Magee and Smith say. You and your boss aren&#8217;t symmetrically dependent; you depend on her approval more than she does yours. But you and the other people on her team are symmetrical, so you&#8217;re likely to become close over time.<\/li>\n<li>Research indicates that powerful people don&#8217;t need to associate with others in the same way.<\/li>\n<li>Powerful people have to think more abstractly than everybody else. They&#8217;re concerned with meeting goals more than developing relationships.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>So the isolation is a result of the social situation that power puts you in \u2014 and the need to get things done.<\/p>\n<p>It works for Mr. Underwood.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"The Best of Frank Underwood | House of Cards - Supercut | Netflix\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/jQFvi4mvt8s?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Who doesn&#8217;t desire power? 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