{"id":1648,"date":"2014-10-01T10:04:22","date_gmt":"2014-10-01T06:04:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/englishbookgeorgia.com\/blogebg\/?p=1648"},"modified":"2015-04-21T10:28:00","modified_gmt":"2015-04-21T06:28:00","slug":"6-tips-for-young-professionals-flustered-by-small-talk","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/englishbookgeorgia.com\/blogebg\/6-tips-for-young-professionals-flustered-by-small-talk\/","title":{"rendered":"6 Tips for Young Professionals Flustered by Small Talk"},"content":{"rendered":"

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1.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Don\u2019t Go It Alone <\/b><\/p>\n

No question, it can be intimidating to go solo in a professional setting. You\u2019re putting yourself out there with potentially serious ramifications for your career. Instead, it can be helpful to have a friend to watch your back and advocate on your behalf.<\/p>\n

At networking events or professional conferences, the ice between making new contacts can be too thick to break on your own. Working as a team doubles your chances of being seen and heard.<\/p>\n

2.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Keep Your Eyes Open<\/b><\/p>\n

When in a group conversation, a lot of seasoned professionals will maintain a conversation but as they\u2019re talking, they\u2019re also scanning the room for people who might want to join the group, but aren\u2019t sure how. There\u2019s no reason why you can\u2019t do the same when you see someone you know struggling to join the conversation.<\/p>\n

3.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Protect Your Credibility<\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s important to be an advocate for others, especially when they\u2019ll return the favor for you, but be cautious about putting your credibility on the line.\u00a0 As a young professional, you don\u2019t have the stock to vouch for just anybody if they truly aren\u2019t a good fit.<\/p>\n

Whoever you bring into the group conversation is a reflection on you and your credibility. If you bring in someone who fits in perfectly, you\u2019ve just established yourself even more. But bring in someone who appears incompetent and the group is going to think you\u2019re no better.<\/p>\n

4.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Start Positive <\/b><\/p>\n

When you have an \u201cin\u201d with a group, start off by making a good impression. Chime in to the conversation when somebody says something you agree with so you can engage on a positive note.<\/p>\n

You can play contrarian later, after you\u2019ve developed some rapport, but a simple affirmation helps set the right tone for the conversation and ensures the group you\u2019re not out to second guess them on every topic.<\/p>\n

5.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Watch the Group\u2019s Dynamics<\/b><\/p>\n

In most circumstances, it\u2019ll be easy to tell whether the group wants you in\u00a0or wants you to move along. If you stumble upon a group that\u00a0is close-knit, they might not want to include you right away. Don\u2019t force yourself on them if they\u2019re not welcoming.<\/p>\n

If the members don\u2019t step back to include you in the circle\u00a0after several minutes of standing nearby and a few attempts to join the conversation,\u00a0look elsewhere.<\/p>\n

6.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Start Now <\/b><\/p>\n

Networking and personal interaction in a professional setting doesn\u2019t come easily to most people. But the data shows it\u2019s still expected of you. Failing to practice can hurt your chances at landing a job or moving up the corporate ladder.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s best to start early. People expect young professionals to come off a little awkward and unpolished, at first, because it\u2019s a new experience. Most people will be empathetic to nerves when you first start out. However, if you\u2019re 45-55 years old and still learning the ropes, people might question your interpersonal skills.<\/p>\n

Take advantage of the leniency while it\u2019s granted, or your friend might soon outrank you.<\/p>\nSource<\/a>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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